The ancient story Silence Is Cultivation comes from Treasured Tales of China Vol. 1
This book is filled with historical stories and legends that foster morality and virtue. The short stories take us back to ancient times in China and the book sparkles with wisdom. It is translated by Dora Li and edited by Evan Mantyk and Connie Phillips. Here, we will share one story from the chapter “Cultivation Stories.”
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The perspective that silence is cultivation
All that lives in nature is still and quiet. Nature’s sounds are silent, yet beautiful. Its quietness surpasses any other sound in the world. Being able to appreciate the sound of nature is a reflection of a higher realm — the harmony between Heaven and man.
The same principles also apply to talking. Some people chatter endlessly their entire lives, pausing only when they realize that silence is cultivation and it speaks louder than words. Herein lies the nobility of silence and modest remarks during conversations. Human nature requires speaking, but wisdom gives way to silence. Humans are inclined to express their own opinions, thereby easily overlooking the need to listen attentively to others. Once people are able to consider others first, they will be able to still themselves and truly connect with others.
The saying “Silence is golden” hints that being talkative is superficial, while silence is cultivation, which is profound. This is reflected in the term silence is cultivation. According to Buddhism, “speaking creates karma,” since words that stem from a place of selfishness or inconsideration can hurt others. Thus, ancient cultivators spoke with kindness, refrained from arguing, and always ceded to others. Some cultivators even sealed their lips, as a lack of propriety in speech and excessive talking can hurt others and create karma for themselves, the ultimate expression of silence is cultivation.
Confucius once told his disciples: “I don’t want to speak anymore.” In response, his disciple Zigong asked: “If you don’t speak, what will we students abide by?”
Confucius answered: “Is it possible for Heaven to speak? Yet the four seasons still run their course as usual; various plants still grow in the same way.”
In the Tao Te Ching, Laozi wrote: “All in the world recognize the beautiful as beautiful, because there exists ugliness. All recognize the good as good, because there exists evil. Therefore, presence and absence produce each other; difficulty and ease bring about each other; long and short delimit each other; high and low rest on each other; sound and voice harmonize each other; front and back follow each other — these are eternal.”
Laozi also stated: “The softest thing in the world overcomes the hardest; non-being penetrates even where there is no space. Through this, I know the value of non-action. One who knows does not speak; one who speaks does not know. The Way of Heaven is to win easily without struggle, to respond well without words, to naturally come without special invitation, to plan well without anxiety. Heaven’s net is vast. It is loose, yet nothing slips through.”
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