How Your Thoughts Can Change Your World

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How many times have you had a thought that changed your world? Whether it is a sudden realization or a slow epiphany, our thoughts have the power to shape our reality. Every day, you make countless decisions that shape your life, and your thinking plays a significant role in those decisions.

If you can learn to control your thoughts, you can change your world

1. Practice mindfulness

The first step to changing your thoughts is to become aware of them. You can’t change what you’re unaware of, so mindfulness is vital. Mindfulness is the practice of observing your thoughts and feelings without judgment. It sounds easy, but it’s pretty tricky. Your mind is constantly racing, and it can be hard to slow down long enough to notice what you’re thinking. But with practice, it gets easier.

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Start by setting aside a few minutes each day to sit quietly and focus on your breath. Then, observe them and let them go as thoughts come into your mind. Don’t try to suppress your thoughts or judge them as good or bad. Just let them be and return your focus to your breath.

This may seem like a pointless exercise, but it’s pretty powerful. Mindfulness helps you gain control of your thinking by teaching you to observe them without judgment. Once you can do that, you can start to change the thoughts holding you back.

2. Identify negative thoughts

The next step is to identify the negative thoughts holding you back. These might be about things that make you feel anxious, stressed, or unworthy. They might believe that you’re not good enough or that you’ll never achieve your goals. Whatever they are, take some time to write them down.

Once you have a list of your negative thoughts, take a closer look at each one. Are they based on fact or emotion? Are they helpful or harmful? If they’re based on emotion, try to identify the underlying feeling. For example, if you think: “I’m not good enough,” you might feel insecure or have self-doubt.

Once you understand where your negative thoughts are coming from, you can start to question them. Are they true? Do they help you in any way? If not, it might be time to let them go.

Once you have a list of your negative thoughts, take a closer look at each one.
Once you have a list of your negative thoughts, take a closer look at each one. (Image: Igor Mojzes via Dreamstime)

3. Challenge your negative thoughts

Now that you’ve identified your negative thoughts, it’s time to challenge them. For each negative thought, ask yourself:

  • Is this thought helpful or harmful?
  • Is it based on fact or emotion?
  • What evidence do I have for or against this thought?
  • Could I look at this situation in a different way?

For example, let’s say you have the thought: “I’m not good enough.” You could challenge that thought by asking yourself if it’s helpful or harmful. If it’s unhealthy, you might want to let it go. If it’s practical, you might want to explore where that thought is coming from. Is it based on fact or emotion? In this case, it’s likely based on emotion. What evidence do you have for or against this thought? If you have evidence that contradicts this thought, you might want to reconsider it. Could you look at this situation in a different way? For example, perhaps you are good enough, and you’re just feeling insecure.

Challenging your negative thinking can be difficult, but it’s an essential step in changing your thinking patterns. It helps you identify the thoughts that are holding you back and question whether or not they’re true.

4. Replace negative thoughts with positive ones

Once you’ve challenged your negative thoughts, it’s time to replace them with positive ones. This doesn’t mean that you have to be optimistic all the time. It just means that you should focus on helpful and empowering thoughts.

For each negative thought, ask yourself:

  • What would a more positive or helpful thought be?
  • How can I reframe this situation in a more positive light?
  • What can I learn from this experience?
  • What are some things I’m grateful for in my life?

By replacing your negative thoughts with positive ones, you can change your thinking patterns. Over time, these new thoughts will become more automatic and help you feel better about yourself and your life.

One of the best ways to change our thinking patterns is to practice gratitude.
One of the best ways to change our thinking patterns is to practice gratitude. (Image: Marek Uliasz via Dreamstime)

5. Practice gratitude

One of the best ways to change your thinking patterns is to practice gratitude. When you focus on the things you’re grateful for, it’s easier to let go of the negative thoughts holding you back.

Try to take some time each day to think about what you’re grateful for. You might want to write them down in a journal or share them with a friend or family member. As you practice gratitude, you’ll see the world differently, and your negative thinking will become less automatic.

Conclusion

Your thinking plays a decisive role in your life. They can hold you back or lift you up. They can make you feel good or bad about yourself. They can even change the way you see the world.

If you’re caught in a repeating pattern of negative thoughts, it might be time to break the mold. By identifying your negative thoughts, challenging them, and replacing them with positive ones, you can start to change your thinking patterns. Over time, this new way of thinking will become more automatic and you will feel better about yourself and your life.

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