5 Qualities That Foster Communication Skills

Communication skills.
When it comes to establishing a successful career, having excellent communication skills is crucial. (Image: Designer491 via Dreamstime)

When it comes to establishing a successful career, having excellent communication skills is crucial. However, your ability to communicate is also vital in your personal life. You may be stumbling over your words and hating your inability to project calm.

The good news is that you’re not uncool; your communication skills haven’t been fully developed. Nevertheless, we’re all trying to be the most excellent versions of ourselves, so we’ve compiled five tips and methods to help you sound your best while interacting with loved ones, close friends, co-workers, and even strangers.

5 qualities that will foster your communication skills

1. Exhibit confidence

It might be very cliche, but pay attention to others. Stop questioning your abilities! Although it might not seem possible, confidence can be developed. There are simple, everyday actions you can do to help you “fake it till you make it,” but there is a guarantee that you won’t have to fake it for very long.

If, like many others, you feel that your social awkwardness comes out more strongly in your conversation than your genuine personality, have no fear: You’re undervaluing yourself unnecessarily, and your interpersonal opinion was probably far more favorable than you realize.

David Bennett, a relationship specialist and psychotherapist, told Elite Daily that these cognitive distortions we experience, such as “I’m odd,” or “They won’t bother calling me again,” are irrational beliefs that should be disputed with rational, affirmative statements. Start by recognizing these beliefs as erroneous and practicing “shutting up all of those judgemental, self-critical voices.”

Your communication style shows that you regard yourself equally to all other people and strengthens your communication
Your communication style shows that you regard yourself equally to all other people and strengthens your communication skills. (Image: Rawpixelimages via Dreamstime)

2. Be yourself

You may show them how truly human you are by being humble. This doesn’t imply that you should treat yourself like a doormat, but that your communication style shows that you regard yourself equally to all other people.

American psychologist Dr. Robert Hogan, recognized for his work on personality psychology, observed that charisma is not more important than humility and ineffective leadership. This idea may also be used to take control of your communication skills because humility in communication fosters trust and understanding between parties.

3. Display grace

While firmly thinking that you should express your truths and avoid self-censorship, this does not imply that you should approach conversations aggressively and go on the attack. Speaking from the heart may make you look more vibrant to people you are conversing with, but you should always keep decency and grace in mind. A conversation with a polite person is usually more enjoyable for both sides than one with a bold or rude one.

How can you counter rude speakers? Can you add elegance to your manner of speaking? Even if you’re a nervous mess, experts advise that you take deliberate pauses, be confident, and speak more slowly to sound calm and collected. Being a better listener can help you be more elegantly in your communication skills.

4. Improve your listening skills

Good communication skills require good listening skills. You should try to actively remember that when speaking with a friend, family member, loved one, co-worker, or stranger, they want to be heard just as much as you do. Your discussion partner will feel more at ease expressing themselves with you and is likely to down their guard if you use active listening to elicit their thoughts, worries, or values. You may then let down your guard as a result of this.

Consider the following: You communicate in one form or another 70 percent of the time you are awake. Speaking takes up 30 percent of the whole conversation time, while listening takes up the remaining 45 percent. Thus, the value of effective listening in discussion might be significantly increased.

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You should try to actively remember that when speaking with a friend, family member, loved one, co-worker, or stranger, they want to be heard just as much as you do. (Image: 138894058 via Dreamstime)

5. Ask more intelligent questions

Some people experience a mental blank when they start a discussion with a stranger or new acquaintance. Create a library of inquiries that you may use to stop this from happening. A great opening line keeps you occupied when meeting someone for the first time.

This causes the others to divulge many details about themselves, including their occupations, whether they have children or pets, hobbies or side businesses, and more. With so many themes at your disposal, you may keep them chatting by asking even more questions. This is one of the valuable communication skills to develop.

Conclusion 

There are many steps you can take to develop your feminine confidence. However, it all begins with faith and trust in the process. Few people can master a skill without putting in time and effort through purposeful practice — this includes communication skills.

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