In today’s world, respecting and getting along with others may sometimes seem complicated. Because everyone has their feelings, thoughts, and beliefs, which may differ from yours, you may have difficulty being tolerant, mainly if your emotions get involved.
But suppose you can follow some basic rules and principles regarding interpersonal relationships, thinking of others first rather than how you can prove your point, win an argument, or get someone to like you. In that case, you may find your relationships with others become smooth. When you put others before yourself, your words and actions will be pleasant and may even make others feel good.
1. Respect other’s thoughts
You have your way of thinking and your own beliefs about different topics. But it’s important to respect others’ thoughts, even if they differ from your own.
Thought is the fundamental element influencing your beliefs, customs, and habits. Therefore, when you respect others’ thoughts, you acknowledge their beliefs, customs, and practices.
Human thoughts are rich, colorful, and diverse, reflecting your understanding of life and the universe. While they may change over time, they present different aspects of your worldview and human psychology.
You shouldn’t make the mistake of denying or destroying others’ opinions because you think yours is the only one that is correct and absolute. The different ways of thinking and seeing the world add to the beauty and richness of life. Such uniqueness keeps life exciting and can even help expand your horizons.
When you respect what others think, you will not only have your thoughts respected in return, but you will help create a sense of harmony with those around you. You may even find that your need to assert yourself and prove yourself right disappears while your ways of seeing the world widen.
2. Show that you care
Respecting and caring for others regardless of their situation is essential; you must express your concern for others. Therefore, you should be attentive to, inquire, understand, comfort, and encourage those around you.
Rather than ignoring or acting indifferent toward others, you should see you help them, even in some small way. You will undoubtedly feel enriched when you care for others and let go of yourself. And by showing others you care, you act as a good role model, encouraging others to do the same. What a great way to improve the world!
3. Offer to help
When you come across others who need money or material things, you should be generous and help however much you can. You should help whenever others need a hand and offer suggestions or guidance when those around you have a mental block or are confused about which direction to turn. Even just small acts can make a big difference in someone’s life.
We all go through difficult times, so when you see someone in need, do what you can to help. You may even find that what you give comes back to you unexpectedly!
4. Give compliments
It’s important to praise others for their virtues, merits, strengths, and achievements and to congratulate them on their special occasions.
People appreciate being acknowledged and feel happy, confident, and hopeful when they receive recognition for their achievements. When you offer well-deserved compliments for the good things people do, it encourages them to do more good things, having a positive impact on their lives and the lives of others.
5. Show sympathy
When others encounter hardships or misfortunes, instead of turning a blind eye, you should offer your sympathy, comfort, and assistance promptly. And you should never rejoice in others’ misfortune or suffering, even if the person has not treated you well. When you do not show sympathy for others and have a cold heart toward them, you harm yourself more than others.
Life is not easy. It’s said that everyone is suffering, in some form or other, while on this planet. When you truly understand this, you can open and expand your heart and approach others’ suffering with sympathy and compassion.
6. Learn to forgive
You will almost certainly encounter people who have made mistakes or done terrible things. Sometimes, it can feel challenging to forgive others, especially if they have wronged you, and others are also saying this person has wronged you and that you should ignore them.
At such times, you should remember that no one is perfect. We are all human, so everyone will make mistakes, whether it be your family, friends, co-workers, or strangers. But when someone wrongs you, it allows you to improve your heart.
When you practice forgiveness, your life will be more fulfilling, meaningful, happy, and blessed. Carrying grievances toward others creates hard feelings, but you harm yourself when you hold onto anger and resentment. If you follow the principle of forgiveness, society will surely improve.
7. Ask for advice
You can’t know how to do everything well. So when you are confused or encounter problems you can’t resolve, you should seek the advice of knowledgeable, experienced, and well-regarded people.
Sometimes, you do not want to humble yourself enough to ask for advice or help. Perhaps your pride gets in the way, or maybe you like to think you know more than others or are worried that others won’t view us as capable if you ask for help. With this attitude, you miss out on learning, improving, and doing your best in life.
When you ask others for help, your problems may be solved, and at the same time, the people you seek advice from will feel respected and valued.
8. Be thankful
Expressing gratitude when you receive help from others, be it material, labor, spiritual, or even when they offer advice, is essential. When you express your gratitude, others will regard you as having a grateful heart, and this kind of give-and-take promotes good interpersonal relationships.
Not only should you directly thank others for their help, but you should review your day before going to bed and think of all the things you have to be grateful for. Even the simple things you often take for granted, like a roof over your head, two hands to work, and food in your belly, should bring a sense of gratitude. In this way, even in hard times, you will learn to look for the good and the lessons those hard times have to teach you.
9. Protect people in need
It’s essential to always exhibit kindness toward those who are weak, poor, or serve us in some way. You should never look down on others or think you are better than they are because you’re in a better situation. Instead, you should value everyone and do your best to help them when needed.
In particular, when people are bullied or mistreated, you should help protect them whenever possible. Standing up for those who cannot stand up for themselves or who need help in some way can significantly impact others’ lives.
10. Be understanding
When someone says something that offends you or does something wrong, it’s essential to be understanding of the person, forgive them, and not hold anything against them.
When you can put yourself in someone else’s shoes, it becomes easier to understand why they may have said or done something. For example, perhaps someone is having a bad day, received terrible news, or is under much stress. We never know what others may be going through.
If you can expand your heart and mind and try to understand how someone might be struggling in life or going through hardships that may lead them to behave in ways you don’t like, you will not be bothered by petty grievances against you. Instead, the other person will see your big heart and may even thank you.
By following the simple ways of getting along with others, you improve not only others’ lives but your life and society in general. In essence, you help make this complex world a better place.
