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The Story of Ah Xiu, a Tale of Love and Loss

This is a story like no other, told by Ah Yi about his adopted sister Ah Xiu. He did not know his father, who died in a car accident when he was very young. Ah Yi remembers that when he was 10 years old, his mother took him to the markets where they saw a group of children ...

Emma Lu

Shadow of a cild on a swing.

12 Ways You Can Gain the Respect of Others

If you respect others, you’d also want them to treat you back with the same level of respect. It feels good to be treated with regard and appreciation, so we aspire to be respected, whether in our personal or professional lives. However, how exactly do you gain the respect of the people around you? To ...

Arianne Ayson

Man and woman shaking hands.

Xiao Yixin Demonstrated How to Have a Harmonious Relationship

Xiao Yixin, who lived during the Liao Dynasty (A.D. 916-1125), was known for displaying the traditional virtues of a Chinese lady. Her father was the emperor’s son-in-law and her mother was Princess Hutu. Xiao Yixin, who was beautiful and also had a kind heart, got married at the age of 20 and never failed to respect her parents or ...

Emma Lu

Painting of a young Chinese woman kneeling by a stream.

The Best Thing You Can Do for Your Children: Love Your Spouse

Nowadays, people remain so busy with their lives that they get little time to think about how their actions or lifestyle impact others in the family. There are instances of parents overlooking the mental needs of their children owing to professional pressure and ceaseless multi-tasking. This eventually creates a rift between the parents and their ...

Raven Montmorency

Husband kissing his wife who is holding their baby as they are relaxing together on the couch.

7 Principles for Making a Happy Marriage

What makes a marriage work is surprisingly simple. Happily married couples aren’t smarter, richer, or more psychologically astute than others. But in their day-to-day lives, they hit upon a dynamic that keeps their negative thoughts and feelings about each other from overwhelming their positive ones. They have what I call an emotionally intelligent marriage. They ...

Emma Lu

Smiling woman embracing her husband at the beach.

10 Things to Avoid When Arguing With Your Spouse

Relationships have their ups and downs, no doubt. Being happily married doesn’t mean that arguing will never take place with your spouse. When disagreements do arise, there are certain things you absolutely must not do when arguing. Don’t do these 10 things when arguing with your spouse 1. Stop arguing in front of strangers Having ...

Helen London

A couple having an argument.

Your Child’s 8 Golden Years

Every parent wants to understand their child’s developmental stages, such as motor skills, language, socialization, and emotional development. But how much do we know, and how should we influence them in their early years? The Yale University Child Development Institute, tracked the growth of thousands of children to help parents set realistic expectations of their ...

Raven Montmorency

Young boy and girl about to race.

How to Be Supportive Without Rescuing Your Husband

There is something on which we all agree: It is important to balance life by keeping all priorities in mind. This also stands true for relationships, particularly those closest to your heart. It is important to be supportive, but without attempting to rescue your loved one. We often tend to overdo things to rescue our near ...

Raven Montmorency

A woman sitting with a man in a restaurant with a worried expression on her face while he talks.

Reincarnation Story: Why the Donkey Started Talking

The following story about a donkey illustrates the cycle of reincarnation and the building up and repaying of debts. A famous saying goes: “It is only right to pay your debts.” However, it’s unavoidable to owe others emotional debts, financial debts, and even life debts. If you don’t repay these debts in your lifetime, you ...

Helen London

A donkey with its head sticking out of its stall.