Self Improvement, Editor's Pick

8 Ways to Break Free From Instant Gratification

From an evolutionary standpoint, it is human nature to seek instant gratification rather than wait for it, and many aspects of the consumerist culture today serve to perpetuate this tendency. But people can get into trouble when they give in to this need too often or incorrectly. Relying too much on instant gratification at the ...

Viena Abdon

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The Key to Happiness: Insights from a 70-Year Harvard Study

People today are often bombarded with messages about success and happiness, usually equating them with wealth, fame, and professional achievement. But what if the true secret to a fulfilling life has been misunderstood? A groundbreaking Harvard study over seven decades may answer what makes us happy. The origins of the happiness study In 1938, Arlie ...

Max Lu

A happiness Chart.

Foster the Habit of Self-Discipline: The Guiding Principle to Success!

Short-sighted individuals value the “small” freedoms, those trivial, fragmented desires. In contrast, visionaries pursue “big” freedoms, the expansive liberties that bring true fulfillment. It is the self-disciplined who are poised to lead a beautiful life. When one lacks self-discipline, their actions are often swayed by habits and external temptations, making it challenging to pursue their ...

Emma Lu

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Mastering Organization: 6 Simple Tips for Improved Skills

Do you lack organization? Are you sick of feeling sluggish and confused all the time? Do you find it hard to remember what you must do and finish it on time? If so, you’re not alone.  on top of your tasks. Follow these 6 tips and you’ll be well on your way to mastering organization ...

Viena Abdon

A cluttered room piled full of boxes of junk.

Embracing Slow Living: Understanding the Movement and Its Soaring Popularity

Slow living encourages individuals to embrace a more deliberate pace, fostering a deeper connection with the present moment and promoting balance in an otherwise hectic life. This article delves into the roots of the slow-living movement, its principles, and the reasons behind its growing popularity. The slow living movement traces its origins to the Slow ...

Viena Abdon

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Cupboard Mastery: 12 Effortless Kitchen Organization and Access Tips

The kitchen is the heart of every home, and the cupboard is its beating pulse. A well-organized cupboard streamlines your cooking process and brings a sense of calm and order to your daily routine.  Imagine effortlessly locating every ingredient or utensil without the frustration of digging through clutter. This article will provide a comprehensive guide ...

Viena Abdon

Open shelving in a kitchen.

9 Effective Tips for Knowing When to Speak Up and When to Remain Silent

Understanding when to express yourself and when to remain silent is vital in both personal and professional relationships. Effective communication can strengthen bonds with friends and partners and may be the key to career advancement. Experts in communication suggest that we often use excessive words and emotions, with few pauses, in our dialogues. Essentially, many ...

Nathan Machoka

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The Art of Tsundoku: Why Owning Unread Books Is Good for You

The word tsundoku comes from the verb “doku,” which means “reading,” and “tsumu,” meaning “pile up.” Tsundoku is a Japanese phrase that describes buying books and letting them pile up without reading or using them. It may also be a noun that refers to someone who accumulates books. But aren’t you just a hoarder if ...

Nathan Machoka

A home library.

Commitment Issues and How to Overcome Them

Commitment issues — also known as gamophobia — can hinder personal growth and fulfilling relationships. This term is usually thrown around casually, but this is a complex issue that may affect professional and romantic relationships. Overcoming commitment issues needs self-reflection, willingness to face underlying problems, and communication. If you want to know what causes these ...

Nathan Machoka

A couple sitting on the sofa, back to back, with arms crossed and with unhappy expressions.

7 Strategies to Emphasize Personal Independence

Independence is a goal that many individuals have when they’re young, but it can be scary when you’re an adult. Living alone is only one aspect of independence. But making one’s own decisions is the most fundamental form of independence. Self-reliance also means having the confidence to speak up for your beliefs and lead your ...

Viena Abdon

Smiling woman relaxing on the couch with a cup of tea.