chinese household, etiquette, manners, respect, rules

Be Honorable and Pay Attention to These Rules in a Chinese Household

China is a nation of etiquette. From the ancient people to the present, many rules have been handed down from generation to generation. These rules cannot be forgotten because they often contain how to be a proper person and deal with things correctly. For Chinese, there are particular rules that reflect not only the wisdom of life, ...

Trisha Haddock

A large Chinese family.

Wedding Etiquette, What NOT to Do as a Guest

It is said that marriages are made in heaven, but it falls upon humans to ensure that wedding ceremonies take place in a suitable manner. It is not only about making merry, delighting in singing and dancing, and enjoying sumptuous foods. When you attend a wedding, you have to be mindful of maintaining proper wedding ...

Raven Montmorency

Groom placing the wedding ring on his bride's finger during an outdoor wedding ceremony.

A Learned Person Possesses 7 Distinguishing Characteristics

There are seven characteristics that a learned person possesses. Parents who are truly sincere and genuine about their parenting responsibilities will nurture and educate their children to ensure they become well-rounded people with positive and endearing qualities. Parental upbringing certainly has some bearing on a child’s future character. A proper upbringing develops a person of good ...

Emma Lu

Closeup view of raised hands giving thumbs up in an office.

Xiao Yixin Demonstrated How to Have a Harmonious Relationship

Xiao Yixin, who lived during the Liao Dynasty (A.D. 916-1125), was known for displaying the traditional virtues of a Chinese lady. Her father was the emperor’s son-in-law and her mother was Princess Hutu. Xiao Yixin, who was beautiful and also had a kind heart, got married at the age of 20 and never failed to respect her parents or ...

Emma Lu

Painting of a young Chinese woman kneeling by a stream.

Why Do People Around the World Take Their Shoes Off at Home?

Wearing shoes in someone’s home can be a sign of respect or an insult depending on the culture. This is because it is customary for people to take their shoes off when entering a private residence, but it may not always be appropriate to do so. Where did the custom to take off shoes originate? ...

Hermann Rohr

Woman dressed in business look entering home and taking off her higheel, right foot.

Traditional Chinese Family Rules of Etiquette

Since ancient times, China has been known as a “nation of etiquette.” With customary codes and rules, families from ancient times to the present have handed down, via word of mouth, these tried and true family rules of etiquette. These are not only a matter of etiquette, but they also reflect a person’s upbringing, which ...

Emma Lu

Three generations of a Chinese family.

How Chopsticks Reveal Your Character

Since ancient times, proper etiquette has been an important part of Chinese culture. Etiquette was considered especially important while dining, and ancient people viewed how one used chopsticks as a reflection of their upbringing and their parents. If you held or used chopsticks in a sloppy, careless, or rough manner, it was taken very seriously, ...

Tatiana Denning

People taking food with chopsticks from a hot pot.

Chinese Dining Etiquette Guide: 8 Do’s and Don’ts

Chinese dining etiquette is quite strict. From saying “please” and “thank you” to politely waiting for someone to finish speaking instead of cutting them off in the middle of a sentence, having good manners is essential for the functioning of a civil society. But what do you do when dining with friends or potential business ...

Emma Lu

A table loaded with Peking duck and all the trimmings.

What You Should Know About China’s Current Social Culture

When the Communist Party took control of China, they tried to purge most of its social culture, deeming it “backward” and an “impedimen”’ to social progress. This resulted in the destruction of a 5,000-year old continuous tradition. So people traveling to China after watching numerous period movies should keep in mind that the China shown ...

Jenny Low

Three golden Buddhas sitting on golden thrones.

Zheng Mao and King Cheng

One day, King Cheng stood on the high platform in the quarters of the royal ladies. As he looked across the room, he noticed that the ladies on the floor below were vying with each other to catch his attention, except for one. That lady was Zheng Mao, who was walking slowly across the room as ...

Nspirement Staff